There is this girl i know from work who is 17 and very slim and pretty who i found out that she has a black belt in Karate but they don’t want people at work or anywhere to know about it its like this big secret but everyone knows that she also plays soccer and that’s no secret . But for some reason they don’t want people to know about her Karate
The only reason i found out is because i saw her in her outfit with a black belt
I asked the boss and he said ( How do you know that ?) and i told him how i saw her she just happened to walk in the same video store that i was in and drop off a DVD
by the way she is also the daughter of the owners
He said (don’t say anything) and i said (why) and he said ( they don’t want anyone to know that she does Karate) and i didn’t say anymore
But i just don,t see what the big deal is
DO YOU ?
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I actually do see the big deal. Some people love to push other people’s buttons. She doesn’t need to have some jerk trying to push her around to see if she’ll strike back. Plus, sometimes it is good to keep some of your “defenses” private… kind of the same reason why sometimes it is good to not go around telling people that you own a gun.
Please, do respect her privacy. You will be doing her a favor.
idk
maybe it’s for protection
maybe it’s because it’s not considered feminine so she doesn’t want anyone to know…
idk…there could be a bunch of reasons
please dont ask her! respect her privacy
if she decides to tell you she will but don’t force into her!
Maybe something has happened in her life leading her to take karate.
The less people in the office to know the less questions asked like….
Why do you take karate?
When did you start?
The whole thing may be very painful for her to talk about. She obviously is taking karate for protection.
Best to listen and keep quiet.
Karate is a very different animal from soccer. Trying to relate the two doesn’t quite work.
Like stated, she might have personal reasons for starting it, and she doesn’t want to have to share those reasons with others. Alternatively, it might be hard for her to meet boys, because some gents will feel emasculated around her knowing she could potentially “take them” in a fight. At the other end of that spectrum is that some men/boys will feel their masculinity so challenged, that they’ll want to fight this girl just to prove that they’re not weaker than a young lady. Whatever her reasons are, they’re her reasons. If she chooses to share them, then you’ll know. If she doesn’t want to, then oh well, get on with your life.
On a sort of unrelated note, it sounds like you’re kind of digging her. Maybe you should ask her out, huh?
is it anyone elses business?what do you want her to do get a tattoo on her forehead saying I DO KARATE ?grow up and respect other ppl right to privacy.
see here is the problem you say you do karate to someone the next question that comes up is “oh thats cool what belt are you” you say your a blackbelt some idiot decides they have to test your skill. plus you have the elment of surprise- its more fun to kick butt when nobody thinks you can
Its nobodys business besides the MA practitioners if they know MA or not. Its simple as that.
I don’t see what the big deal is, but if she wants it to be a secret - u should respect that. There may be reasons to why she wants it to be a secret.
As some people here have said - maybe she just doesn’t want to answer questions about it or that some guys may challenge her if they knew about her karate.